If you are continuously attracting the circumstances around you by what you are thinking and feeling then you realize the importance of taking time to check in with yourself.  You know what I’m talking about.  Those days when something hits you between the eyes and you feel kinda beat up.

Someone was just relaying her experience on a trip where she lost her drivers license, and went through every possible check at the airport under the name of you have been randomly selected.  Hmmm…do you have a target on your back or are you caught up in a vibration that you aren’t enjoying. Your experiences are by vibration.

I’ve had my own experience lately with a very angry gentleman and a controlling woman.  I would say they are both very controlling but with different techniques.  OK, I’m not a victim.  Yea, I may want to enjoy that role for a moment as I vent.  But the quicker we come around to ask ourselves “what’s happening withing me” the sooner we will shift the experience.  “They” will either leave or feel no need to act out.

The sooner we can stop focusing on the negative the less energy goes that direction.   It’s amazing how one person out of group can get your attention with negativity and you put your focus there and get stuck.  Then you whine and think about it and complain about it and on and on.

The sooner you can remember all the other nice people in the room the better.  Oh that’s right how many nice comments you’ve had.  How happy everyone else seems to be that you exist.  So you tick one person off.  Focus on all the people that appreciate you and you will get more of the same.

The other will leave or get quiet.

“When you begin to understand Law of Attraction, and you understand that which is like unto itself is drawn, then it is easier and easier to understand that you are offering a signal, and the entire Universe responds. And when you finally get that, and you begin to exercise some deliberate control about the signal that you offer, then it really begins to be fun, because then you recognize that nothing happens outside of your creative control. There are no things that happen by chance or by circumstance. There is nothing that is happening because of something you vibrated a long time ago or in a past life. It is not about what you were born into. It is only about what you are, right now, in this red hot fresh moment emitting.”

-Abraham-Hicks