I can’t make you feel better about yourself.  I can only reflect to you what I see and feel.  You choose what to believe.  You can accept it or reject it based on your beliefs.  Love yourself.

I remember having a hair cut I wasn’t so sure I liked.  I had some inner turmoil going on about it.  Once I decided I liked it, without saying that to anyone, people started to compliment my new cut.

It is our self acceptance that gives others permission to love us more.  Our energy field allows them in.