We all have to make them. Most of our daily choices are simple. Get out of bed, get dressed. Getting dressed can present choice challenges. I’m a woman, it’s not always simple. I try to keep getting dressed simple. Let me expand that to say it’s not hard to choose if I want to get dressed or not. It’s the choice of what do I feel like wearing. What am I doing? What feels good? Many times I would like to have more to choose from.

 

When choices feel challenging, what’s the real issue? It’s the black and white issue, the right or wrong issue. Life just is rarely that clean. Haven’t you ever made one choice, then all of a sudden the thing you didn’t choose looks better. Damn. Now sometimes you can find ways to have both. I like that. I know most of you do to. We find ways, excuses. For example when you are with someone else and you order dessert. Sometimes you are willing to order different things and share. Yea, and that doesn’t always work out now does it.

 

So what is it really? I’m taking this way to seriously. Good ol school training maybe. There’s only one right answer. I guess we can add religious training in there, that’s a big one. We all want to be the one’s that got it right. Especially when our consequences are hell. That makes choosing a hot topic. Yea, sorry.

 

OK, so I’m taking a deep breath. I’m going to laugh at myself now. Yea, go ahead, laugh at yourself also. OMG sometimes I just go off the deep end and actually believe what they taught me in school, life is a test. Sometimes there are multiple choice questions, fill in the blank and essay’s. Thank god for extra credit work.

 

As it turns out, life is just a series of choices. Sometimes my choices feel difficult because I just make them that way. Because even I don’t really trust I can have something better if what I currently have isn’t really fitting well. Let’s face it, even if you know in your heart it’s the best choice you need to make, it’s not black and white. It still hurts. Why? Because I haven’t jumped in with both feet. I’m looking back. I’m dragging my feet. I’m staying entangled just in case I want to change my mind. Because there was still good stuff back there. But, was it enough? Did I try my best? Yes, I did. I enjoyed the good stuff. I can have more. I know I can. I may have to wait a bit and make a few more choices. Like Goldilocks sitting in the different chairs, tasting the different bowls of porridge and beds. Finally finding what feels like a good fit. Even then, after a good snooze she was frightened out of a comfortable situation. She had to make another choice. Sometimes I need a poke or prode to make those choices. Can you relate?

 

I’m making a cleaner choice today. I have my head faced forward and I know I now have room for something that feels good. When I find myself looking back, which I know might just happen. I’m going to turn around and around and dance. I’m going to dance and do those things that make me feel good. I did my best back there. I’m going to create something even better today.

 

In Love and Joy,

Susan

 

 

There’s a fine line between fear and excitement. You feel your heart racing and you can barely breath. This is the time to make a conscious effort to breath and feel the earth. Bring awareness into your body so you stay grounded. The energy of creation is pumping.

Keep focused on the positive. As your energy expands you will bump up against old beliefs and patterns. Don’t go there. You’ll see them and feel them, but just wave and keep going. Keep reaching for joy by laughing with friends, recognizing all you have to be grateful for, and loving yourself. Be good to you. Know the universe is now supporting you in realizing your dreams. Step by step. Allow it in.

Take quiet time to feel and be with this energy. Just notice it. It’s just energy. It can’t harm you. You will create what you focus on, so keep your attention on the positive.

In Love,
Susan

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